Baby Proj · Outreach System · v0.3

Fertility / Surrogacy Outreach Plan:联系方式核对 + 术语解释 + 流程架构图

这一版把 Steve 的三个问题合并成一个可执行页面:哪些机构有官网表单/邮箱、黑话 glossary、以及从信息收集 → 路线选择 → clinic/legal/agency 执行的整体链路和时间线。不是医疗/法律建议;目标是让 outreach 可规模化、可比较、可推进。

Email-first / Form-secondClinic vs Agency vs LegalPGT / IVF / GC glossaryTimeline + Architecture

0. 结论:不要 phone-first;改成 scalable intake pipeline

推荐策略:公开邮箱优先邮件;没有公开邮箱但有官网表单/appointment form 的,统一用标准化 inquiry message 填表单;只有在对方回信或必须预约时才电话。这样可以并行 outreach 10–15 家,并把回复结构化比较。
P0: RMA / RSC / California Conceptions / Pacific Fertility P1: Simple Steps / Hatch / Bamboo / Golden / legal Track in one CSV: route, cost, timeline, constraints, next action

1. 联系方式核对:官网表单 / 邮箱 / 电话

机构优先联系方式确认到的入口Steve 应该怎么联系备注
RMA / Reproductive Medicine Associates Northern CA
P0 clinic
官网 appointment/contact formphoneContact / request appointment; Northern CA page先填官网 request appointment;正文用标准 inquiry,问 donor egg/embryo + PGT + single/unmarried IP。未在公开页稳定找到邮箱;页面有表单信号。电话作为 follow-up。
RSC Bay Area / Reproductive Science Center
P0 clinic
appointment form888-377-4483Request appointment; Contact先填 appointment form;他们有 single parent/LGBTQ/third-party reproduction 页面,适合问约束条件。未找到公开邮箱;form-first。
California Conceptions / California IVF
P0 donor embryo
recipient profile/application530-771-0177Recipient application; site邮件优先,附 6 个问题;如果他们要求 profile,再填 application。这是 donor embryo benchmark,适合快速拿价格/包含项/PGT 选项。
Pacific Fertility Center / Egg Bank
P0 clinic + egg bank
getting started/contact forms415-820-4120 / 415-834-3000Egg Bank getting started; PFC contact先表单:问 frozen donor egg lots、screening、PGT workflow、是否需 physician consult。公开页有表单信号;邮箱不稳定/主要为 cryo support,不建议作为首选。
Simple Steps Fertility
P1 agency
contact form818-747-3198Contact邮件 + 表单都可;问 egg donor + surrogacy end-to-end packet。agency,更适合问 surrogate match / legal / escrow / insurance coordination。
Hatch Egg Donation & Surrogacy
P1 agency
contact / free consultationContact表单选 Intended Parent;可邮件请求 IP packet + fee schedule。适合做大机构 benchmark。
Graceful Beginnings Egg Donation
P1 egg donor agency
parent/donor database formsBecome a parent邮件优先,问 donor pool、fees、clinic coordination、single IP support。boutique agency comparison。
Bamboo Surrogacy
P1 agency
intended parents form949-666-2229Intended parents问 fast-match claim、current surrogate inventory、费用、Chinese-language support。需验证“fast match”是不是营销话术。
Golden Surrogacy
P1 agency benchmark
800-824-4428 / 312-212-3384Contact邮件优先,问 match time、fee schedule、insurance/legal handling。官网表单信号不明显,但邮箱公开。
Reproductive Law Center
P1 legal
consultation/contact form888-259-6000RLCSD等 clinic/agency route 缩小后预约 20–30 min legal consult。问 single/unmarried parentage、donor/embryo agreements、GC contract timeline。
注意:有些网页被 bot protection 拦截,我用公开搜索结果和官网页面交叉核对;后续正式 outreach 前建议把每个官网入口人工点开一次,避免表单 URL 改版。

2. 关键黑话速查 Glossary

RMA
Reproductive Medicine Associates
大型 fertility clinic network。这里关心的是 Northern California 分支,能回答 IVF、donor egg/embryo、PGT、gestational carrier 这些 clinic-side 问题。
RSC
Reproductive Science Center of the San Francisco Bay Area
Bay Area fertility clinic。官网明确覆盖 donor egg、donor embryo、single parents、LGBTQ family building,适合先问“single/unmarried intended parent 是否支持”。
IVF
In Vitro Fertilization / 体外受精
卵子和精子在实验室形成胚胎,再把胚胎移植到子宫。后面 donor egg、PGT、surrogacy 大多都围绕 IVF 流程。
PGT
Preimplantation Genetic Testing / 胚胎植入前遗传检测
胚胎移植前取少量细胞检测。常见分 PGT-A、PGT-M、PGT-SR。
PGT-A / old PGS
胚胎染色体数目筛查
看胚胎是否染色体数目正常。常用于提高移植成功率、降低流产风险;不是保证健康宝宝。
PGT-M
单基因遗传病检测
如果某个家族/携带者有明确单基因疾病风险,用它筛查特定 mutation。通常要先做 carrier/genetic workup。
Carrier screening
携带者筛查
检测精子/卵子来源是否携带隐性遗传病风险。donor egg/sperm 通常会有某种 screening,但覆盖范围要问清楚。
Donor egg
捐卵
用第三方卵子。可以是 fresh donor cycle,也可以是 frozen donor egg lot。Steve 现在要问的是 frozen donor egg availability + screening + expected embryos per lot。
Donor embryo
捐胚 / donor embryo program
直接获得已形成的胚胎,通常比 donor egg + sperm + IVF 简化,但 donor choice、遗传连接、未来 sibling planning 可能受限。
GC
Gestational Carrier / 妊娠代孕者
怀孕者不提供卵子,只负责妊娠。和 traditional surrogate 不同;现代 legal/clinic route 多用 GC。
IP
Intended Parent / 准父母
法律和机构语境里指计划成为孩子父母的人。表单里通常会让你选择 intended parent。
FET
Frozen Embryo Transfer / 冻胚移植
把冷冻胚胎解冻后移植。donor embryo 或 PGT 后常走 FET。
REI
Reproductive Endocrinologist & Infertility specialist
生殖内分泌/不孕专科医生,clinic consultation 的核心医生角色。
SART / CDC stats
诊所成功率数据库
美国 fertility clinic 的统计来源。可作为比较参考,但不同患者结构差异很大,不能只看排名。

3. 整体架构:三条线并行,不要串行等

Baby Proj execution architecture Goal: turn unknown fertility/surrogacy routes into comparable options, then pick one execution path. Steve / Mandy goalsconstraints · preferencesbudget · timeline Clinic trackRMA · RSC · PFCIVF · donor egg · PGTmedical feasibility Agency trackHatch · Bamboo · Simple Stepssurrogate / donor poolmatch time + fees Legal / insurance trackparentage · contracts · escrow Comparison matrixroute / cost / timelinescreening / PGTsingle IP supportrisks / next action Decision gateA. donor embryo fast pathB. donor egg + IVFC. GC / surrogacy routeD. hybrid / delay Operating rule: outreach in parallel → collect structured replies → one decision meeting → only then commit money / legal / medical workup.

4. 时间线:推荐 6 周拿到可行动方案

Week 0–1
Outreach
Prepare standard inquiry1 个中文理解版 + 1 个英文发送版
Contact P0RMA / RSC / California Conceptions / PFC
Track repliesfee sheet / appointment / constraints
Do not decide yet先拿信息,不急着花钱
OutputP0 response table
Week 1–2
Benchmark
Agency outreachHatch / Bamboo / Simple Steps / Golden
Legal consult shortlistRLCSD or CA reproductive lawyer
Compare routesdonor embryo vs donor egg vs GC
Risk listlegal / medical / timeline / cost
Outputroute matrix v1
Week 3–4
Consults
2–3 clinic consultsREI + coordinator
Ask PGT/screeningPGT-A/M, carrier screening
Ask single IPdocs/constraints
Cost modelincluded/excluded/cash pay
Outputdecision-ready memo
Week 5–6
Decision
Pick routeA/B/C/D
Legal sanity checkparentage + contracts
Medical workupif route selected
Budget lockrange + payment gates
Outputexecution plan

5. 标准 outreach message(可邮件 / 表单复用)

Subject: Intended parent inquiry — donor egg / donor embryo / PGT process and fee sheet Hi [Team], I’m an intended parent based in California and I’m researching family-building options involving donor eggs and/or donor embryos, with possible IVF/PGT and gestational carrier coordination depending on the recommended path. Could you please share the best next step and any current fee sheet / process overview? I’m especially trying to understand: 1. Do you support single or unmarried intended parents? 2. Do you work with frozen donor eggs or donor embryos? If yes, which egg banks / embryo programs? 3. What genetic/carrier screening is included for donors? 4. What PGT options are available (PGT-A / PGT-M), and what is the typical timeline? 5. What is the expected timeline from consultation → embryo creation/testing → transfer? 6. What costs are included vs excluded, and what documents should I prepare before a consult? If this is not the right team, could you point me to the donor egg / third-party reproduction coordinator? Best, Zhihao (Steve) Ouyang

6. 下一步 checklist

Today

用上面的模板发/填 P0:RMA、RSC、California Conceptions、Pacific Fertility。目标是拿 fee sheet + process overview。

Within 3 days

整理回复到 CSV:route、是否支持 single IP、donor source、PGT、费用、时间线、下一步 appointment。

Within 1 week

补 agency/legal benchmark;不要只听 clinic 一边说法,避免后面 legal/GC/insurance 卡住。

Decision meeting

把选项压缩成 2–3 条:donor embryo fast path、donor egg + IVF、surrogacy/GC full route。